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How My Style Has Changed Since I Chopped Off My Hair

How My Style Has Changed Since I Chopped Off My Hair

When a woman makes a major hair change, there’s often an assumption that something’s wrong. She’s gone through a breakup or a loss or a tragic event and her new hairstyle signifies a deliberate identity change. Two weeks ago, when I chopped my shoulder-length curls into a buzz cut, my […]

Why So Many Black Women (Including Me) Are Giving Weaves A Second Chance

Why So Many Black Women (Including Me) Are Giving Weaves A Second Chance

Growing up in the 2010s, long before lace front wigs ruled the Black hair world, a sew-in weave — hair extensions perfectly melded to your hair — was the height of maturity and forward-thinking style. Popularised by R&B stars of the noughties like Jamelia, Ciara and Rihanna and installed by […]

10 People On Their Awkward, Joyful, Lonely & Poetic Coming-Out Experiences

10 People On Their Awkward, Joyful, Lonely & Poetic Coming-Out Experiences

Before it became a chaotic and uncontrollable CW mainstay, Pretty Little Liars was a young adult series that took up an entire shelf at the nearest Barnes & Noble. When I was in sixth grade, I would go to the bookstore with my mom, and while she hunted down bestsellers for […]

An Open Secret: How My Queerness is Tied to Lesbians of Puerto Rico’s Past

An Open Secret: How My Queerness is Tied to Lesbians of Puerto Rico’s Past

From the 1940s to the 1960s, Myrta Silva was one of the most famous Puerto Rican singers and songwriters, known internationally as the Queen of Guaracha. She was also maybe, possibly, very likely queer. While rumours that Silva was lesbian flew, they have never been confirmed nor denied. Still, more […]

My Gay Stepdad Was All The Father I Needed

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Should I Go Back To My Toxic Ex? Or Stay In A Sexless Partnership?

Should I Go Back To My Toxic Ex? Or Stay In A Sexless Partnership?

Thanks for reading Can We Talk?, a sex and relationships column that aims to tackle the burning questions about sex, dating, relationships, and breakups that you’re too afraid to ask your partner — or maybe even your besties. Last time, relationship therapist Moraya Seeger DeGeare, LMFT, helped a reader dealing […]

How To Work Out If You’re Living Beyond Your Means

How To Work Out If You’re Living Beyond Your Means

Please note that this information is general in nature and shouldn’t be construed as financial advice. The phrase ‘living beyond your means’ is thrown around a lot. And while we know it refers to over-indulging, it’s not always clear what that actually means. Officially, it’s defined as spending more money […]

Peeking Bras Are The Wearable Alternative To Thong Trousers

Peeking Bras Are The Wearable Alternative To Thong Trousers

The summer fashion trends of the past few years have made visible underwear as common as a white tank top. From the naked dress look to whale tails and peeking boxers, the options to flash your intimates are endless. This season, designers have offered yet another underwear-as-outerwear trend: peeking bras.  […]

Ms. Marvel’s Iman Vellani Is More Than Just Marvel’s First Muslim Superhero

Ms. Marvel’s Iman Vellani Is More Than Just Marvel’s First Muslim Superhero

Iman Vellani’s first TV role doesn’t even feel like acting. According to the 19-year-old, she’s long been living the life of Kamala Khan, Marvel’s first Muslim superhero and the lead protagonist of six-part series, Ms. Marvel. “I honestly feel like I lived Kamala’s life when I read those comic books […]