Welcome to Money Diaries where we are tackling the ever-present taboo that is money. We’re asking real people how they spend their hard-earned money during a seven-day period — and we’re tracking every last penny.

This week:
“I came to the UK as an international student and I now work in London as a financial advisor. I try to live a very minimalist and material-free lifestyle and always consider needs over wants before buying anything. I spend a lot of time considering purchases to avoid impulse buying. I recently changed jobs and I’m now working even longer hours than before. I’m currently having a crazy time at work as I am on multiple projects and will be off on holiday soon so I am trying to complete as much as I can. I’m still getting used to working these longer hours and am improving my health/stamina/fitness so that I am able to work at my job better. I don’t mind working these longer hours as I view it as an investment of my time and I am learning a lot. I hope I can one day start my own business back in my home country.”

Occupation: Financial Advisor 
Industry: Professional Services/Finance
Age: 27
Location: London
Salary: £55,000 (with potential for a 50% bonus. My bonus depends a lot on how the market is and how much my billables are).
Paycheque Amount: £3,200
Number of housemates: Living with family friends.
Pronouns: She/her

Monthly Expenses

Housing costs: £500 (It is really low as I am living with my family friends).
Loan payments: No loan payments.
Savings?: £67,000. I have £10k in a high-paying easy access savings account and around £10,000 in a Stock and Shares ISA. I automatically invest £700 a month into a fund that tracks the S&P 500. The rest is split into fixed-term cash ISAs and high-interest savings. I do have a day trading account with FreeTrade and Trading 212 which holds less than £5,000 inside. 
Pension? I pay 5% of my salary and my employer pays another 5%. Their pension scheme is not as great as many places as 5% is the maximum they will contribute.
Utilities: Included in housing costs.
All other monthly payments: £8 phone bill, £40 a month for gym. Subscriptions: None.

Did you participate in any form of higher education?

I went to a high-ranking UK university and did a very practical degree in accounting and finance. I then went on to do a graduate scheme with the big four where I completed the professional accounting qualification. Upon completion of my graduate scheme, I then tried to move departments within my company but faced a lot of internal obstacles and had to look externally.

Fortunately, an opportunity arose to move on from the big four to a smaller consulting company. The new role not only allows me to learn a different aspect of finance but also has higher earning potential in the longer term. My parents paid for everything – tuition and expenses. I wouldn’t have been able to afford anything on my own. I did have various part-time jobs at university to help ease the guilt of spending my parents’ money to do fun stuff like travelling and socialising with friends.  

Growing up, what kind of conversations did you have about money?
We had a lot of conversations about money growing up. My parents were very thrifty and really passed that down, but my mom always bought anything we needed for school and always emphasised giving us the experience she never had growing up. This meant sending us to ballet classes, music classes, language classes etc. They always told us to save money and work hard. I did not have a luxurious life but we were very comfortable. My parents didn’t have very fancy jobs but they invested their money well. My mom was really good at encouraging us to save by doubling our savings if we put our money into the bank. They talked a lot about “money making money” and encouraged us to invest our money at a young age. My siblings and I struggle to spend our money because we know we can put it in the stock market and get a better return! 

If you have, when did you move out of your parents/guardians’ house?
I moved out of my parents’ house when I was 18.

At what age did you become financially responsible for yourself?
I was financially responsible for myself from 22, but I moved in with family friends at 23 due to some personal issues. I take care of everything myself but I guess my subsidised rent means that I am not fully responsible for myself?

What was your first job and why did you get it?
I got my first job when I was 16 working as a maths and English tutor at a local tuition centre at home. To be honest, I didn’t need to work but I liked the idea of earning my own money plus if I saved it, my mom doubled it! 

Do you worry about money now?
Yes, all the time. I am always worried about improving my income and if I am saving enough. House prices have really increased and I always wonder how it will be when I raise a family. I think a lot about investing and improving my investments as well. I have not been very successful in comparison with my peers. When my friends and I meet up, we talk about salaries, job opportunities, investment opportunities etc, which can be quite stressful but as I want to improve I always humble myself and learn as much as anyone would like to share. 

Do you or have you ever received passive or inherited income?
No.

Day One

7am: Wake up early to go to the office. As I’m new at my job, I go to the office at least two times a week. I have a big week ahead and I really want to focus on getting on with my workload. I take the bus there, £1.75. 

8.15am: I arrive in the office and have my usual cereal breakfast. I get started on my emails and then have my first call at 8.30am. I have multiple catch up calls this morning and then get on with my tasks through until lunchtime. 

12.30pm: I did food prep over the weekend so I have my lunch already today. I spot a colleague from a different team at the cafeteria and join him for lunch as it is always good to network and learn more about different teams.

7pm: I look at my watch and realise it is late and head home for dinner, £1.80 on the Tube. I’ve linked my railcard to an oyster card so I get 30% off my travel. 

8pm: I have a quick dinner with the family at home and head back to work.

10.30pm: I realise it is already 10.30pm and decide I have done so much today that I can log off and go to bed.

Total: £3.55

Day Two

7am: I wake up and head to work like always. I take the bus to the office, £1.75.

11am: My colleague asks if anyone wants to grab coffee together. A few of us join for the walk to the coffee shop but I decide against getting a drink.

12.30pm: I have lunch with a member of my team. I brought my prep lunch today. 

1.30pm: Back to work!

7pm: In no time, 7pm arrives and I still have quite a few comments to go through. My associate has been really busy with another project which gives me the opportunity to really step up in this project but it means more workload. I decide I have a lot to get through and will end up staying later than 9pm so I get dinner at a shop round the corner. Thankfully this dinner can be expensed.

10pm: I pack up my things and leave for the day. I take the Tube home which comes to £1.80.

11pm: Watch some shows on Netflix (I use a family friend’s login) and head to bed.

Total: £3.55

Day Three

8.30am: I can wake up later today as I’m working from home. I have my usual cereal breakfast. 

9am: Power on my laptop and start working.

12pm: I take my lunch break and make lunch at home.  

1pm: I continue working until 6.30pm. I decide I can afford to go to the gym this evening so I work until my evening class.

6.30pm: I head to the gym in the evening. It is a 20-minute walk there and then around a 45-minute session. 

8.30pm: My family friends are having pizza tonight and they ordered whilst I was out at the gym. When I get back, I have my pizza box waiting for me. 

9.30pm: I have no new emails so I get ready for bed.

10pm: I continue my Netflix series and head to sleep by 11.

Total: £0

Day Four

7.15am: Same morning routine as usual. I wake up and get the bus to the office, £1.75.

9am: I start work. I’m working on two projects at the moment and I’m finding it difficult to find time to work on one of them. I use the opportunity this morning to really focus on it and have a catch up call on the respective next steps.

12.30pm: I didn’t bring my meal prep with me today but I have a voucher for a £1.99 lunch offer. I grab it and have lunch at my desk today. 

4pm: I am supposed to have dinner with a colleague this evening and he texts me asking what time I would like to meet. The task I’m working on is proving more difficult than I would like and it is taking me longer to complete than anticipated. I text back asking if 7pm is okay but he says only 6pm will work. We decide to postpone dinner again and I continue working. 

8.30pm: After deliberating if I should go home or get dinner at work, I decide to get food and expense it. It doesn’t make sense for me to go home and make dinner and then continue working. Unfortunately, my usual shop is closed so I have to walk around for a bit to find an open shop. I grab my dinner and head back to the office. 

10.30pm: The office feels so quiet and I don’t want to stay until midnight so I pack up and head to the Tube station. The train comes to £1.80. 

11pm: I arrive home and I quietly head to my room to continue working

12.10am: I reread my work one last time and message my team that I have completed my section and log off. I know I have another long day tomorrow so I resist the urge to watch Netflix and close my eyes to go to sleep. 

Total: £5.54

Day Five 

8.30am: I’m working from home again today so I can wake up later. I have my usual breakfast and cup of tea. 

9am: Switch on my laptop and start going through my messages and emails. I start working on my second project which I hadn’t had time to work on very much yesterday. 

12.30pm: I go and quickly make myself a sandwich for lunch and ring my parents to see how they are doing. 

1.30pm: I log back online and continue working.

7.30pm: I complete my task and inform my team that it has been completed. I ask if I need to work on the new materials we received over the weekend. I pack my bag as I wait for my team to respond. 

8pm: My director says we will work on the new material early next week and ask us to flag if we cannot be 100% on the project next week. I respond and say that I can and then log off and head to the gym.

9.30pm: I arrive home from the gym and as my family friends are out tonight, I need to fend for myself for dinner. I quickly whip a tuna pasta. 

11pm: Once I finish, I turn on Netflix and lay in bed. 

12.30am: I head to sleep.

Total: £0

Day Six

11am: I wake up and have breakfast with my family friend. We chat about our week and what we were going to do this weekend. It is my boyfriend’s best friend’s birthday today and we are heading to his house for the afternoon to play board games. 

12.30pm: I head to my room, watch Netflix and get ready to go out. 

1pm: I meet my boyfriend and luckily his friend’s house is not far from me so we can walk over. We stop by the off-licence to get drinks. I cover for the drinks as he got the present and the card, £15.

2pm: Unfortunately, we get a bit lost and arrive slightly later than planned but his friend is fine with it and it is really nice to meet everyone!

7.30pm: After the board games session we head back to mine and have dinner at home with my family friend. We all chat at the dinner table and have a really nice time. 

10pm: I head off to bed as I’m really quite tired.

Total: £15

Day Seven

10am: I wake up and find my family friend making breakfast. No one has done any hoovering this week so I decide to do some cleaning while waiting for food. 

10.30am: Breakfast is a speedy one as there is an important football game going on today. 

1pm: Everyone is gathered around the TV and watching the match. Unfortunately, the game is not going in our favour so it is a bit sad and people wander off to do their respective things.

2.30pm: I call my parents to see how they are doing. While chatting to my parents, my sibling who is visiting London messages me that she is dropping by to pick up some things. 

3pm: My sister arrives and she chats to my parents on the phone for a while. Then she heads out.

4pm: I pack my gym bag and head to the gym.

5.45pm: After the gym, I head to my friend’s birthday dinner and drinks. This year, I have dramatically cut down my alcohol intake for health reasons so as I drank yesterday, I choose not to drink any today. The dinner comes to £15.

9.30pm: As I have a long day tomorrow, I decide to leave drinks early and say my goodbyes. 

10.30pm: I do some research on skiing as I will be going on a ski trip for work soon. I look up how much it would cost to possibly extend my stay. It is more than I thought but it will be something I will progressively purchase over the next few months so I’m not too worried. 

11pm: Sleep.

Total: £15

The Breakdown

Food & Drink: £31.99
Clothes & Beauty: £0 
Home & Health: £0
Entertainment: £0
Travel: £10.65
Other: £0

Total: £42.64

Conclusion

“As I worked really long hours this week, my expenditures were really low. I probably have two weeks in a month that look like this and the other two weeks are about £100-£150 as I will do some activities with my friends. I try to minimise the cost of things like breakfast and lunch at work by bringing in food as I feel the little bits do add up. I would rather spend money on having lunch/dinner out with my friends on the weekends rather than spending in the week. I had a really good experience recording my spending as I like to keep a record of my daily spend anyway.”

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