Month: December 2022

The Problem With Saying ‘We All Have Mental Health’

It’s often said that attitudes towards mental health are changing for the better and yet what we mean by the term ‘mental health’ remains vague. While ‘health’ normally implies an absence of illness, ‘mental health’ is an umbrella term encompassing both wellness and distress. The campaign slogan ‘we all have […]

Money Diary: An Academic Researcher On 42k

Money Diary: An Academic Researcher On 42k

Welcome to Money Diaries, where we’re tackling what might be the last taboo facing modern working women: money. We’re asking a cross-section of women how they spend their hard-earned money during a seven-day period – and we’re tracking every last penny. This week: “I’m a 34-year-old academic researcher working in health […]

Wearing My Mum’s Wedding Ring Is Helping Me Heal From My Parents’ Divorce

My parents have been divorced for as long as I can remember; their marriage ended when I was a baby. As a child, I was ferried between their houses at the weekends, constantly living out of a rucksack. At school plays, I’d anxiously peep out of the stage curtain to […]

For The Sake Of My Sex Life, I’m Leaving People-Pleasing In 2022

It’s 2011, I’m 16, and I’m having sex for the first time. My partner says: “Did you have an orgasm?” I lie through my teeth: “Yeah.” This is the beginning of the end of my sex life. Let me explain.  Have you ever faked an orgasm or moans? Hidden your kinks? […]

Money Diary: A Bartender In London On 14k

Money Diary: A Bartender In London On 14k

Welcome to Money Diaries, where we’re tackling what might be the last taboo facing modern working women: money. We’re asking a cross-section of women how they spend their hard-earned money during a seven-day period – and we’re tracking every last penny. This week: “I’m a 23-year-old working almost full-time in a […]

A Dermatologist Told Me To Make These Skincare Resolutions In 2023

If you’re reading this, chances are you have a couple of dubious skincare habits. You might be reluctant to throw away your old makeup, for example, or perhaps you don’t wash your face for long enough (a common mistake, according to this expert). But if one of your 2023 goals […]

Is She A Bad Friend Or Are You Over-Investing?

In the 21st century, female friendships are celebrated like no other. From Dolly Alderton’s Everything I Know About Love to that summer of #SquadGoals, today’s young women have come of age in a golden era of female friendships. We’re told that these friendships are the backbone of our 20s, that […]

Not Everything Is ‘Toxic’ Just Because You Don’t Like It

If something is toxic, it is poisonous. If ingested or inhaled, its toxicity can make people sick; it can even be fatal. Toxic things are to be treated with extreme caution, black and yellow tape, red triangle warning signs. Toxic waste gets dumped away from people, in the middle of […]

13 Fresh New Year Haircut Trends, Predicted By Top Stylists

2022 has seen so many viral haircut moments, it’s impossible to pinpoint a favourite. January was all about the ‘octopus’ haircut, combining lots of layers at the base of the neck that fan out really prettily and resemble octopus tentacles. Come February, we were all obsessed with the ‘butterfly’ cut, […]